Several years ago I wrote a “Judeo-Christian” defense of marriage privatization, by which I mean getting the government out of the business of deciding what marriage is and by what terms it should be governed. As the cultural wars over same-sex marriage intensify, that idea has gained wide popularity across the political spectrum. For example, in their popular book Nudge, Richard Thaler and Cass Sunstein devote an entire chapter to advocating marriage privatization.
Many advocates of marriage privatization seem to think that disentangling the state from marriage would be easy. They argue that the government should just stop issuing marriage licenses. Marriage would then become a private ceremonial and contractual matter. The state would enforce marriage contracts just like other contracts.
Although I remain an advocate of marriage privatization, disentanglement would be far from that easy. The state is thoroughly intertwined with marriage; the Gordian knot cannot be neatly severed. I’m currently working on article entitled How to Privatize Marriage that tries to work through these complex issues. My bottom line is that privatizing marriage does not mean that the state would get out of regulating and recognizing intimate unions altogether, but that it would try to create a wider space for regulation and recognition by individuals and social and religious groups.
I’m still working through these issues and won’t try to offer a comprehensive solution yet. For now, I’d like to raise three difficulties with marriage privatization that need to be addressed as part of any privatization proposal. They correspond to functions currently served by state marriage regulation and recognition.
First, the state uses marriage as a marker for the dispensation of state benefits and the extraction of obligations owed to the state by individuals. This is most obvious in the taxation context, but occurs across a tremendous range of state activities. (I’m using “state” in its broad sense to include all governments). For example, selective service (i.e., Read more